I have been looking forward to hiking the AT since I was ten, but now that it is coming down to gear checks and food lists i am realizing that I do not want to hike this trail alone. I am an able hiker and have been in the woods since i was little - giving me confidence in my survival skills, but still I want to find a person who is committed to hiking as a team... someone who will wait in town while blisters heal. I am just trying to reach out and find some people who are also interested in this kind of hike...:sun

If you thru-hike, they will come.

You will endup with more true friends than you have at home.

You'll meet someone to hike with out there, lots of great people on trail!

Have you called Stephen Katz?

River:

Be aware that unless you're in a committed relationship with someone, or hiking with a family member, most "trail partnerships" don't last, i.e. most folks who start the Trail together don't finish together. Either they finish separately; or one finishes and one doesn't; or they decide to hike independently and neither of them finishes. This holds true whether or not its good friends; childhood friends; college roomates; army buddies; you name it. Very few partnerships endure.

It ESPECIALLY holds true for strangers who meet on Day One or on the Internet.

There are two main reasons for this: First off, it's a question of pacing. It's rare to find someone who wants to hike on EXACTLY the same schedule as you. In most cases, there's a speedy guy and a slower guy, and one of two things happens: The speedy guy goes nuts because he's spending half the day sitting on a rock or a log or wherever waiting for Joe SlowPoke to show up, and eventually, he gets resentful cuz the waiting and wondering when the partner is gonna arrive starts driving him nuts. Conversely, Joe Slowpoke realizes he's becoming a drag on the expedition and forces himself to go further or faster than he should, in order to keep up with his faster partner. He burns himself out in short order and either falls behind or goes home. You CAN'T hike for long at someone else's pace.

The other problem is spending too much time with one's hiking partner. Frequently, partners end up driving eash other absolutely nuts and need time apart. Ever go on a long car trip with your best friend and you were ready to killl him on day three, because of fights over the radio station, too many pit stops, incessant talking, too much complaining, whatever? Well what do you think 179 days with one guy is gonna be like? It'll make the worst car trip you ever took in your life look like a dream vacation.

In short, don't sweat the "partner" thing. Start by yourself, you'll be fine. If you leave Springer anytime between 1 March and 10 April (and especially if you leave between 15 March and 5 April) you'll have plenty of company, maybe even too much. You'll meet all sorts of great folks, and will make many friends. When you find folks you like, who also are happy to hike at your own pace, well, then it's "Instant trail partner".

The best Trail companions are the ones you find accidentally. Don't worry about finding a partner ahead of time. In all likelihood, even if you did find this person, the partnership wouldn't last. Instead, be confident; start by yourself; be friendly and open-minded; be a better listeneer than a talker.

You'll make friends very quickly out there, and if you want, you'll find plenty of folks to hike with.

Good luck!

... I want to find a person who is committed...what you are talking about is a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Jack Tarlin (http://www.whiteblaze.net/forum/member.php?u=227) , that is great info of observations. thanks for sharing bro. Peace :sun

My guess is River11 understands and agrees with everything that been said here, except maybe calling Stephen Katz. That might be why she's trying to get in touch with people who think and hike the same say to develop a team that will start and end together sharing the trials and tribulations along the way. The group approach to HYOH. Correct me if I'm wrong. Wish you the best!

Is HIking alone smart to do?

Is HIking alone smart to do?

Duh you are never really alone on the AT...

If you're on the AT this summer you won't be alone.

Ever consider bringing mans' best friend as a companion ?

No ! No ! , not a 2 legged friend....one with 4 legs.