Sorry, I wasn't trying to be a dic but sometimes I can be perceived as being one. I have this problem with my GF too.
To extend an olive branch, when I'm raking leaves I think about them blowing back into my yard after raking for hours, all the worms and insects in the leaves, fall color, the earthy aromas of fall, all the different shapes of leaves, the start of football season and the World Series, squirrels building nests of leaves in preparation for the winter, putting them into the compost pile, a warm crackling fire and cup of hot cocoa as a reward, the crunchy sound they make when walking through them, and piling them up in huge piles so the kids and myself can frolic in the piles throwing them all around in abandon.