I hope this is the appropriate place for this question; above it says "If you need help moving around on Whiteblaze, this is the place to post it."
On several occasions, I have been publicly or privately told by moderators to stop posting certain things or certain topics.
On several occasions, these folks (and it certainly isn't always the same person) have told me "Take your stuff to Personal Messages; if you wish to continue a dialogue with someone, take it to PM."
On more than one occasion, upon reflection, I've realized this is good advice.
Recently, I had a post of mine edited by a Moderator, and he probably had a legitimate point. So I sent him a very civil explanatory note, in which I expressed regret for giving him cause to edit my post, but I added that I still felt that what I'd actually written in the post was absolutely truthful.
The simple reply I got was "I'm not interested in this subject."
I sent back a brief reply, where I very briefly stated that someone's refusal to discuss facts doesn't necessarily negate them; I further said that I respected his feelings about the subject and that the matter was concluded, i.e. there'd be no further correspondence from me on the matter.
I just got back a very blunt letter, warning me about "abusing" the PM privilege.
So here's a simple question: When one is admonished about posts and told to "take it to PM" or when someone is told "Problems with website administration should be taken to the Moderators," well this is fine. I have no problem with this.
But what happens when Moderators aren't interested in what you have to say?
Where does one go then? How can one defend the worth or validity of one's comments here if the people who moderate them aren't interested in discussing them with you?
I would be curious to hear some other opinions, assuming this post and thread don't disappear.
I would also, of course, like to hear from Moderators, too.
(Please note: The purpose of this post is not to point out any specific person, nor is meant as a wholesale attack on website administration or moderation. Anyone who comes here regularly knows that I've frequently defended admin. and moderators here and have frequently said that I think the website is moderated quite well. The purpose of this post is very simple and revolves around a simple question: How does one get to discuss the validity or appropriateness of one's posts here if the people who pass judgment on them refuse to discuss them, even in private? I think it's a fair question, and I'd have sent this along as a personal message, but first off, Rick's out hiking, and secondly, I've been warned not to "abuse" the PM privilege. So this seemed like the only place to discuss this. I hope this thread is allowed to continue; I further hope that it stays civil).