So I've put together my big 4 and have done a weigh in. Some things to keep in mind is that I'm hiking with my gf so in reality, our mean pack weight will be more important. Also it explains why we're splurging for a 10 oz MSR Hyperflow filter for water filtration.
Pack - GoLite Quest M - 51 oz
Bag - EMS Mountain Light 20 - 35 oz
Pad - Exped synmat UL 7 M 72 in - 16.2
Shelter - Six Moon Design Lunar Duo - std floor - 43 oz
So that's 9# 1oz if I carry the Lunar Duo by myself. Also that's not yet counting the stakes (we got Ti), the ground tarp, or the seam sealant. I know I could have gotten a ULA for double the price, but this is comfy and I didn't want to have to buy and return the ULA just to try it on. I should mention that I got the pack for $105 and the bag for $130.
So my question is how reasonable it will be to keep everything else (non-food & water) to 6# for a total weight of ~15#? I'm planning on building an alchy stove, but what else can I target for weight? Is 6# too much, should I aim even lower?
Also, any tips on how two hikers can compliment their gear lists to have redundancies, but also flexibility? For example, one of us will carry the Goliath water filter, but the other will have Aqua Mira; one of us could have one cooking pot, and one of us a different shape/size.