Beligerant Son !!
I want to do a 2 week section with my son in Aug.
my son wants to hang out with his friends all summer, not cut the grass, or help do anything, video games. My ex-wife doesn't make him do anything. WE argue less than we uses to. all 3 of us. she would like to see him go, but is unwilling to to put any pressure on him , extreme conflict avoidance, but dumps on me afterwards.
I'm afraid Colin and I would get into a big argument on the trail, trail folks would back him up. " He's 16 can make his own decisions" I would be tempted to take ALL the equipment and let him fend for himself. I am very tired if his biligerance. and am very tired of her not showing any consequenses of his bad behavior and undermining me if I try to show consequences to bad behavior.
But last night he and I cut the grass together sat down and watched TV a while , generally did some cooperative quality time.
So what to do about the beligerant son??