I have no patience for people that claim to have "passed the bar" or "back in the day I was...." nothing has changed in 50 years .. My grandfather served in WW1 and 2 and he NEVER discussed it. He wasn't a fan of his medals - he was far more interested in his remaining friends in the forces. His deeds spoke mountains - His silence spoke even more. His one quotable quote was...
I served so you should not have to.
that's not right --- hold on I gotta call my dad --- I will edit and clear this up...