So I finally cooked with just an esbit cube and 2 rocks. It was liberating. For me it was a break through, mind you the esbit stove does not weigh much- it was the principle. The best part was That I got to show my children how it worked. Maybe they will bypass all of the contraptions, combinations, and money spent that I did (or is that the only way to the lesson?).
I also got rid of my big Gerber multi-tool. Truth be told after packing it for 3 years I have never used anything but the knife. Now I have a tiny little Gerber someting or other- like a keychain knife or something.
Be well friends