Congrats, but there are no guarantees. I'm in the middle of an amicable divorce after 32 years of marriage (plus 6 years of dating). I truly believe that our world would be better off if couples commit to each other for 5-year relationships with easier outs. I know -- sacrilege.
GA←↕→ME: 1973 to 2014
Did a day hike of 12 miles starting at 2:40 in early february with dead batteries in my headlamp and no overnight gear. I used my camera's view finder light as a guide to hike down blood mtn in 27 degree temps in pitch dark.
You're not going to live forever.
Find this to be true.
Use your past as a guide.
While you're alive, live.
I was married for 13 years. they were 2 of the happiest years of my life
Dogs are excellent judges of character, this fact goes a long way toward explaining why some people don't like being around them.
Woo
Come sail away, come sail away, come and sail away with me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wf3yw...ure=plpp_video
I jump off waterfalls into deep cold water in winter time butt ass naked - I ice climb, I kayak class V rivers, I snow ski in the backcountry (but with a probe, beacon, and shovel), I try to backpack 30 miles in a day sometimes waking at 4am and finishing after dark but NO, I don't do anything stupid.
1. Like others above, I once tried to hike across a bald amidst lightening. Worse, I did it despite having been put on notice by my map that the mountain in question is called "Thunderhead". (The Smokies have been changing/reviving. There was no tree cover at all on that ridge when I was 'young and foolish' back then in 1972.)
2. Not paying close attention while attempting to install new fuel for a Camping Gaz stove (circa 1977). It's amazing how fast butane shoots out in all directions from accidentally punctured canisters. Mine whirled out of control and within a few seconds its metal became too cold to touch. If I'd been a smoker or had a campfire nearby...
I really only came to the same conclusion last year.
My 30 year marriage is the best thing that ever happened to me.
The secret to a successful marriage is deciding who makes the minor decisions and who makes the major ones.
In our house my wife makes the minor decisions about what to eat, which curtains and what car we should have etc.
I make the major ones like should we accept more migrants, should we be in Afghanistan or is global warming something we should do more about?
We get along fine....
Ok Ok.. My best friend and I would lie to our parents..I would say I was spending the night with him, He would say he was spending the night with me..We would then ride our bikes around the neighborhood all night long..But then one night it got down to 5 below and we could not go home because we had lied, so we went to another friends house and got under a camper shell that was laying on the ground and tried to sleep..I was in second stage of hyperthermia when our friend finally got up and came outside to feed his dogs and let us in to warm up..needless to say we never lied to our parents about that ever again...lol very stupid..
Kibble's n Bit's
Something really stupid... You mean like leaving a good paying job and the company of my wife and family to spend 6 months walking through the woods with rain and bugs and dirt and snakes? Something like that?
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Allen "Monkeywrench" Freeman
NOBO 3-18-09 - 9-27-09
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I once snowshoed across a lovely, snowy slope. When I got back to the trailhead, I saw the sign that said "avalanche risk, extreme danger". No ice axe, no knowledge of self arrest, bare minimum of survival gear...