
Originally Posted by
hikerboy57
thru hiking the at has been on my bucket list for a very very long time. but life is about choices and priorities. i chose to get married, i chose to have kids, and being there for them was always more important for me, and i never evr once felt i was sacrificing anything in any way.it was what i wanted to do! After I got divorced i found a lot more free time on my hands and i was able to go on longer sections, take more weeks off and 2 week hikes, and still be able to take care of my obligations. My kids are grown now, and last year i had been given permission from my boss to take off 3 months to do the southern half from springer to dwg. my child support is done, i have no debt, thankfully, and there was nothing preventing me from finally taking my journey(with the intention of finishing the north half next year). but life has a habit of "interfering"with my plans when my daughter told me she was pregnant , and expectiong again (she gave birrth to my first grandaughter,Fia on May 31), so I decided to postpone my trip, just in case there was a need for me to be around, i didnt want to be a thousand miles away. i made the decision to stay ,and again, i never once felt disappointed that i had once again to postpone a dream.it was what i wanted to do and i was exactly where i wanted to be! and i know now i made the right decision. this august im hiking ME SOBO, and i can hardly contain myself. its the longest time ill have spent on the trail in one shot, and i already know maine will have plenty of challenges.
there is nothing wrong with having that all consumng "burning desire" to acheive a goal, and i do hope one day i can proudly say i ve completed my thru hike(NOBO), but for me, life is about finding balance in a turbulent world, and section hiking helps me find that balance.
but thats just me.