First I’ll give you my back story. Up until now, other than short day hikes, I’ve always hiked with someone… usually my bf.
Recently, I’ve decided that I want to experience a multi-day hike alone. Not saying that I won’t talk to people and not camp next to them… but that I am going to set off by myself.
I’m planning a small section of the AT that’s fairly easy and close to where I live for this summer, and I have been swamping myself with researching every little aspect of it.
Anyway, if I mention this to anyone other than the bf they all give comments that boil down to… “You’re young and female… obviously you are incapable.”
It even went as far as one guy, who I don’t know personally at all, told me, “It’s good you’re spending that much time researching it, maybe it will make you realize how bad of an idea it is.”
If I say anything about it to the bf, his response is “Well you’re going about everything the right way, so just use this as a way to show them up.”
But my question is, when you get comments like that… how do you handle them? It really bothers me… a lot. I basically just stopped talking to people about it at all… I’m even at the point that I keep a blanket in my car to throw over my gear so no one talks to me about it.