Sounds like a bunch of white-knighting to me. Be yourself but be respectful...that goes for everyone you come across.
All I know is the OP is an overdramatic princess...probably has gender issues. What kind of man has pigtails and wears a skirt anyway?
I can't believe this keyboard puke garbage thread even went this far.
Interesting. I can say the Ladies follow this rule in reverse. At least..none of them gave me much attention... I was lucky to find one to hike with me for even an hour.