I am wondering what the accepted ethic is regarding staying at a Hostel when one isn't a thru hiker. Or even backpacking.
I honestly don't have a clue.
In my world, my wife and I have taken scores of trips up to the Whites during thru hiking season where we have stayed at a motel in Gorham or North Woodstock for our first night out (or for an entire weekend when its been cold). Never even consider staying at a hostel (other than the AMC's), in large measure because we don't want to take someone's spot. To a lesser extent, because we don't want to interject our weekender personas onto the thru hikers.
Are we really being consideate, or are we just missing out on some of the fun? If we did stay at one, would there be bad form if I didn't introduce myself as a former thru hiker? On the web I like to talk alot. In real life, I much prefer to listen.
Rick B