There you go. Don't always be part of the bubble, don't always camp where the masses camp, and don't hike like the masses hike and a world of AT solitude appears on the horizon.
You have to realize when one solicits the advice of the entrenched masses one tends to get entrenched experiences. Do your own hike. There is no one way to thru-hike the AT. Stop seeking that as if it exists and options suddenly appear for you to enjoy the AT thru-hike of your desires.
Consider doing one more thing. Expand on your goal, broaden your vision from, "Hope we all get what we hope for from the trail!", to meditating on and contributing to the betterment of others on your thru-hike. I know when I change the goal to "What can you do for the trail and for all", I get more from the trail, from the hike. Think of others not just as human others too. Have a great hike, and hopefully others will too as result of your hike.