Second post within 24 hours that you made flaming millennials. What gives? Mine is in school FT; has a PT job teaching in an after-school program to inner-city kids; runs three clubs, and yet finds time to give her parents quality time each week. Although I encourage her to rest when she is sick, she is loathe to take a day off from anything, unless instructor or boss demand that. She is work-oriented.
I dated a man born in the last year of the baby boom, who lived with his mommy rent-free. So, middle-aged.
So, what gives? Something personal? It can all be dealt with in family counseling,.
Be well. I hope things get better, truly I do.