Hmm.
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Achieving a goal is not the same as trying to achieve that goal. Is that being argued?
Can we have a measure of success by redefining goals or attaching other goals to achieving the primary goal and achieving those other goals sure but that does not ignore the achievement or lack of achieving the primary goal. The initial goal, the main goal, was not realized. In that perspective FAILURE was experienced.
Maybe we're not on the same page defining goals. Let me be clear how I define goals. Maybe you can share more clearly your position?
I define and recognize personal goals not as suggestions to myself. Goals are clearly identified measured targets. They are not unfounded unmeasured fantastical day dreams based without a timeline and regular accountability to myself during the incremental stages in achieving the target. I attach the words success to goal setting defined by achieving the goal. I see goal setting as making an obligation a commitment to succeed by realizing that goal.
The OP had a clear target, a measured goal...a goal of walking the AT between Virginia and Massachusetts. He aimed to hit that target, that goal. He failed to hit it.
LOL. When I pack my parachute the clearly defined goal is that it opens and performs as it should after I jump out of the airplane. If it fails to open that's failure for it to open...and it has it's consequences. It's not a success!
LOL. When it's my mutually agreed upon goal to get to my GF's house at 7 p.m. and I get there at 10 p.m. after making a 3hr stop at the bar she doesn't tell me I was successful at arriving at 7 p.m....and it has it's consequences!
LOL. When it's the clearly defined and agreed upon goal to arrive at a biz meeting prepared for the meeting at 8 a.m. and I arrive unannounced 2 hrs late and unprepared that's not achieving the goal....and it has consequences.
Are there "special" different goal setting rules or techniques or definitions of the goal when people have a clearly defined goal to walk the AT between VA and MA within a specified period that I'm missing?
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