You need to buy a hammock.
And then see if you like it.
Then worry about tricking it out.
You're 47... so probably not dying to sleep on the ground... but that said;
I tell people to try a pad on the ground (or on the floor at your house) first. Pads are much improved.
For backpackers:
There is nothing lighter than a pad and top quilt. If it works for you- do it.
Hammocks are more expensive and complicated- period. Nothing simpler, easier, or more foolproof than slapping a pad on the ground and going to bed.
If you can't sleep on the ground- don't stay home- try a gathered end hammock.
Ideally go to hammock forums, find a group hang and visit one to try lots of options all at once... most folks are overwhelmed by the choices/options. Most folks will not like sleeping in a standard store bought hammock.
If you can't get a gathered end to work- try a bridge. These work well with a pad and sleep more like a floating cot. The combo is nice for trails like the AT where you may wish to 'go to ground'.
The Warbonnet Ridgerunner is an excellent piece of gear at a decent price... it will work with a pad.
If nobody else's hammock will work- then talk to me about my bridges.
Don't stay home- there is a way to sleep well.