I feel the same way. I just don't expect others to see things the way I do. Even my husband becomes mission bound on even a little day hike. He is focused on running out of time or daylight before getting to where we are going and I am focused on the pretty shape of the trees and that weird looking mushroom, etc. From the helpers perspective, I agree with you all, but from the one needing help's perspective, I bet none of you want to be the one. But I think I am thread drifting so... back to the matter at hand...
Sometimes I think the word Bias could be interpreted as simply seeing/noticing a difference in genders, and adjusting accordingly. To be non-biased would simply be to not notice a difference and make no adjustment from one person to the next. Just speaking personally, I like being a lady and I like being treated as such, but not to the point that I am considered any less intelligent or capable. Many times I have been insulted by men who think I shouldn't worry my pretty little head about something, but I don't get all worked up. I just show them up or prove them wrong. No better revenge than to prove them wrong. I am always my strongest and do my very best when i have been told (many times by my husband) that I can't do something, or that it is too much for me. That's when I shine the brightest. So I don't let gender bias wreck me, I let it drive me. For guys, let it drive you to be more of a gentleman, more sensitive, the opposite of what you are being accused of.