Originally Posted by
davidderush
Wolf, thanks for telling us the source of your bitterness.
Essentially, your friend fell in love with the One we fell in love with...and with the life we share with one another...and left you behind.
That's a hard thing to swallow, for sure. But why don't you just accept it for what it is? She found a life with us that she loves more than the life she had with you.
If she had found such a life she loved more, with another man rather than with a group of people...would you be on such a crusade against him?
I don't know who this woman is, who used to be with you, and is now here with us....but she is here because she has chosen to be here. And to be in our life is a very good thing...for me, it has been like coming into light after living in the darkness. I am happy for your friend.
It would be nice if you could see the value in the choice she has made; and that is what it comes down to, Wolf...she made a choice, and continues to make that choice daily to be with us. You should respect that, if you truly respect her.
Sincerely,
David