This is not strictly speaking a female only thing but I had a negative experience today. I climb this rather challenging trail (scrambling).
Anyway, I went with this guy I have hiked with before. Just glad it was short!!!
I kind of figured he might be an alcoholic (he is NOT a significant other, nor a boy friend)-- however, I have never seen him drunk. He got in the car with me (I drove at least), and he had an alcoholic smell. I also think that since he smokes he was in bad shape for this kind of hike, and fell a couple times in a not too controlled way.
Anyway, he kept telling me where to climb and just come on over here, come on quick, but then would say "take it easy!!!" in places I clearly felt where safe for me. So it might have been more of a control thing. And perhaps a male chauvenist thing-- as I am clearly in better condition. He also let go of the dog a few times after I told him I don't do that, at least not on purpose. (I haven't taken the dog there and probably wouldn't again. At least I got the pack and it provides a very nice handle. Very helpful.)
I also, at one point, told him not to touch me while climbing, unless I asked. I meant that last time he pushed on me a few times which I dislike.
He wouldn't hear any of my attempt at clarifying and got nasty-- so I kind of climbed farther ahead and let him cool off.
Anyway, my point in posting-- if you ever have a
feeling about someone it's probably right!!
(I wasn't worried from a standpoint that I thought he would try something.
Far from it. But I did worry about his mental status-- just didn't imagine what that would mean.)
It would be interesting to hear anybody else's experiences....
--des