Hi gang,
I have a non-hiking partner who is upset and jealous of my hiking. I understand because how many people would be happy if their partner said they were going to take off for a month or six to go for a walk. She tolerates my interest in the AT barely, but she can't wait till I finish the trail so I can shut up about it already and stay home like a normal person (lol)
I am a section hiker with the pearisburg to harpers ferry and new hampshire and maine sections left to go. The plan is do a section a summer for the next three summers till I am done. Most section range from 4-5 weeks long.
I am not sure how other hikers smooth over the relationship waves in order to both distance hike and be in a relationship. I imagine that relationship and family commitments are a big factor between hiking or staying at home and not making waves.
It is not just her. It is me too. I don't like be away too long either. I figure about 30 days is our max for being apart. Before I was in a relationship, I had no problem with the idea of a six month hike, but now a section seems to work fine.
In fact, part of what got me on the trail in the first place was because I just went through a break up and needed some time to hike and clear my head. This time is because I love hiking and the trail.
I figure other hikers may also have issue with family and the AT.
Feel free to share your thoughts.
Chef Brian