Since I live near lots of coconut palms and have discovered their benefits, I had to look this up.
My wife's family grinds up the inside of the coconut and then presses it to get the coconut cream.
I buy it dried for backpacking and find it in most all Asian grocery stores.
Look for foil or white packs of the powder near the canned coconuts in these stores.
Great with tumeric based curry powders or, like you say, great for a dessert too.
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