I feel you. You make sense, I just can't seem to get over the "letting you get out" part. I guess it's just my personality and youth that causes me to think this way. It took her 32 years to find a man like me and I find it hard to believe that she would be willing to throw it away just because she doesn't want me to walk in the park. I just don't get it I guess. I know there are plenty of men out there, but that doesn't mean that ANY OF THEM would be worth throwing away all of this because of her disagreement. In essence, if she left the relationship, it would be her choice. If she made that choice, it would be HER loss. I am not choosing to end our relationship, Im choosing to hike in the park. If that is a deal breaker for her, good luck with your new set of cards. Something tells me she would crap out.