This could have probably gone under cost considerations but I felt it had a different undertone so I started a new thread.
Hikers that have pre-appointed partners or spouses have already worked out the sharing thing. Solo hikers are completely on their own, maybe...
Once you get into the swing of things and become comfortable with the group that is hiking around you, it is often common practice for hikers to share motel/hotel rooms. I mean after all alot of them have been sharing shelters every night and sleeping practiclly on top of each other in crowded ones. (The domino effect!)
When it is 2 guys or 2 girls no one thinks much of it. On the trail, however, there are alot of times when it might be a guy and a gal. They could have spouses/partners back home. In the everyday world this is greatly frowned upon, even obscence. On the AT it is very common place. I spent a number of nights in a motel with 2 men that I was currently traveling with. I remember when 2 young ladies shared a motel room with a Catholic Priest.
It is a great way to share some of the expenses when in a town. You get to sleep in a nice (well, sorta) bed, get a hot shower or two, catch up on the news, etc. WHile only paying for half the room. In the south where you can find a room cheap it's not such a big deal, however, up north the rooms get expensive in hiker terms.
I do suggest that you discuss these type of situations with your partner before the hike verses call him/her up and say oh by the way I'm sharing a motel with some guy/girl. They are already feeling disconnected from you and your new world. This could be a shock to their system if not all ready prepared for it. My husband and I discussed it at length. Having both been hikers for years and knowing the trail life, shelter cohabitation and all he was pretty open to the idea.
We have been together for 22 years and have great faith in each other. He knows that nothing is going to happen. Some partners may not be comfortable with it no matter what. It is important that you consider their feelings as well when making these decisions. Even if you and your partner are okay with it be prepared for some razzing from friends that just don't get it, or can't get their minds out of the gutter.
Also, IMHO, I feel you should be careful how you act when in a motel with hikers of the opposite sex. Even though striping and dressing is done regularly in a shelter, don't tempt or tease in a motel room. You have access to a bathroom, dress in there.
I have to say that I spent only 2 nights out of 1800 miles in a motel with another woman. Every other time it was a male, younger, older, same age... I personally am happy I have a strong partner who loves, respects and understands.
HAMMOCK HANGER